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Importance of a Day of Wedding Coordinator

After the joy and excitement of the engagement, couples begin the awesome task of planning their wedding. Though many couples can easily agree on their ideal wedding, planning the details of that special day can be a challenge. Choosing a wedding coordinator can relieve the stress and help provide smooth sailing as you move from your engagement towards creating the wedding day of your dreams.

Who is a wedding coordinator?

One of the decisions in planning your wedding is to determine if you are going to use a wedding coordinator. A wedding coordinator is a person that organizes your entire wedding. Though they are not inexpensive by any stretch of the imagination, they are very helpful and even necessary to a peaceful day for the Bride and Groom. Here are some of the Importance of a Day of Wedding Coordinator on your big day.

The day itself is the biggest reason that one should have a wedding coordinator. On the big day, they organize everything from the catering, to the music, to the decorations, and everything in between, including party preparation. They also make sure that everyone is where they are supposed to be, and when they are supposed to be there. The coordinator in effect makes it so that the Bride and Groom can relax on their day and simply have fun.

Not confined to only the day, the coordinator is also the one that secures all of the pertinent equipment, services, and places to hold the wedding and the reception as well as wedding party favors and vendor lists. They handle every aspect of the during the time leading up to it and keep the Bride and Groom informed of everything on a regular basis. A large number of contacts that are handled by a wedding coordinator is quite stunning, particularly for a larger wedding.

Another key function of the coordinator is to advise the Bride and Groom about themes and decorations. They help to create the perfect event and make sure that the visions of the Bride and Groom are brought to fruition. This is no simple task, but the coordinator is usually in charge of a team of people that can help to ensure success.

When you secure a wedding coordinator, it is crucial that you ask some important questions. Ask for references and check them thoroughly. This is vital as the coordinator is the single most critical link to the wedding for the Bride and Groom. Any expectations that you will have of the coordinator should be in writing and clearly defined. This is to protect you and the coordinator if something should not go as planned.

Having a fantastic wedding day is very difficult if you do not have someone planning and placing everyone where they need to be. This important function among many others is the primary focus and reason behind paying someone to do so. The coordinator is the maestro of the wedding and orchestrates every detail so that the event is about exactly what it should be.

 

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Miranda Drummond is a published photographer in the DC, Maryland, Virginia area.  Her portrait sessions are conducted on location and in her studio in Alexandria, VA.  She also travels around the US and abroad for many of her sessions as well.

If you would me to be your Photographer, please reach out!  I'd love to meet you, get to know you and capture your best images.  For pricing and availability, please do not hesitate to reach out!

EMAIL: INFO@CATHERINERAEPHOTOGRAPHY.COM

PHONE: 240-339-5176


Eighteen Only Comes Once - Maryland Bangin Birthday Sessions

Milestone birthdays and the photo sessions that go along with them are a thing and I love them! Kamari came through Catherine Rae Photography for her 18th birthday session complete with a make up session. When I say this young lady was born to be in front of the camera I cannot express it enough. Her family surprised her with this event and then made a day, no a weekend out of this momentous occasion.

WANT TO KNOW MORE? CLICK HERE TO FIND OUT MORE ABOUT HOW I CAN CAPTURE YOUR SPECIAL DAY! 

Miranda Drummond is a published photographer in the DC, Maryland, Virginia area.  Her portrait sessions are conducted on location and in her studio in Alexandria, VA.  She also travels around the US and abroad for many of her sessions as well.

If you would me to be your Photographer, please reach out!  I'd love to meet you, get to know you and capture your best images.  For pricing and availability, please do not hesitate to reach out!

EMAIL: INFO@CATHERINERAEPHOTOGRAPHY.COM

PHONE: 240-339-5176

Honduran & Salvadoran Wedding - Rockhill Plantation Stafford Virginia

July 16th I had the pleasure of photographing the wedding of Norvy and Francisco at the Rockhill Plantation in Stafford, Virginia.   This estate was amazing and the grounds were beautiful.  The staff was very friendly and the couple was simple adorable.  The day was a but warm and the ceremony was outdoors but the guests made it through the intimate ceremony filled with love.  You could tell that the the couple was madly in love with each other and couldn't wait for the day.  It was as if it was just the two of them.  The parents of the bride walked her down to her groom and the two were wed. 

We had a short time out on the vast lawn of Rockhill Plantation for the formal portraits and then we moved to the reception where we danced the night away for a couple of hours. The couple then exited their reception with a well lit sparkler exit.  I wish the couple all the best.

Fashionable Couple in DC - Washington DC Engagement Session

Another fun loving amazing military couple is about to tie the knot!!!   I had the pleasure of photographing this couple in Washington DC one EARLY morning.  I love when a couple comes with outfits and has an idea in mind of what they want to do.  Michelle had coordinated the outfits and Dennis went right along with what needed to be done.  We had a great time walking around and getting these fun shots.  

Best wishes to them in their future! 

WANT TO KNOW MORE? CLICK HERE TO FIND OUT MORE ABOUT HOW I CAN CAPTURE YOUR SPECIAL DAY! 

Miranda Drummond is a published photographer in the DC, Maryland, Virginia area.  Her portrait sessions are conducted on location and in her studio in Alexandria, VA.  She also travels around the US and abroad for many of her sessions as well.

If you would me to be your Photographer, please reach out!  I'd love to meet you, get to know you and capture your best images.  For pricing and availability, please do not hesitate to reach out!

EMAIL: INFO@CATHERINERAEPHOTOGRAPHY.COM

PHONE: 240-339-5176

SAN ANTONIO SENIOR PHOTOGRAPHY - AROUND THE TOWN SHOOT

So proud of this young lady right here!  I met her when she was just 3 years old and now she is 17 and getting ready to graduate high school.  She has turned out to be a respectful, polite, intelligent, god-fearing person and I just love being around her!  oh and her sense of fashion is off the charts!  Her mother has done well raising her and I just couldn't wait to get to San Antonio to take her portraits.

We started the day with makeup  and hair and then off to the Alamo for some quick shots. We then headed to the rooftop of the River Walk parking center for a couple of clothing changes and then to Hemisphere park.  We then concluded the day at the Hayes Street bridge to get the view of the city skyline in the cap and gown.  A first class session for a first class girl!

Check out the images from Iyanna's shoot below!

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WANT TO KNOW MORE? CLICK HERE TO FIND OUT MORE ABOUT OUR UNIQUE & AMAZING SENIOR PORTRAIT EXPERIENCES!

Miranda Drummond is a published photographer in the DC, Maryland, Virginia area.  Her portrait sessions are conducted on location and in her studio in Alexandria, VA.  She also travels around the US and abroad for many of her sessions as well.

If you would me to be your Senior Photographer, please reach out!  I'd love to meet you, get to know you and capture your best images.  For pricing and availability, please do not hesitate to reach out!

EMAIL: INFO@CATHERINERAEPHOTOGRAPHY.COM

PHONE: 240-339-5176

Survivor Saturday w/ Stacie C. - Maryland Portrait Photographer

Happy Saturday!!!  Today Stacie is sharing her story on her diagnosis and her survival.  Stacie came ready with her glam outfits and ready to go.  Her son was with her and he had a good time watching his mom get the glam squad treatment that she deserved.  He was her personal cheerleader on this day!  Stacie was so sweet and I am glad that I could provide this service to her!  Everyone....Meet Stacie!

1. What type of cancer were you diagnosed with and when?

I was diagnosed with Breast Cancer 29 Jan 2015. 

When I went in to initially speak to the doctor, she assumed I was a stage 2. I spoke to the plastic surgeon who made a double mastectomy sound like the "boob job" I'd always wanted.. I did extensive research to learn that even with that kind of surgery, there was still a chance of recurrence. I opted for a lumpectomy. The surgery went well, and I waited for the pathology report. My parents and I sat in a small room to be told that 18 out of the 24 lymph nodes they removed were cancerous putting me at stage 3C instead of the 2 that was assumed in the beginning. It was like the wind was knocked out of me. All I remember asking is if I was going to die. Because there were so many nodes involved chemo was in my future. I started chemo April 29th, and it wasn't too bad to start. The horrible part is the shot that you have to take for the white blood cells. I've never felt that kind of pain, ever: and I've had two children. Chemo for me lasted 4.5 months, and it sucked. Some days I could meet my Soldiers for lunch (I'm Active Duty Army), and other days I couldn't even get out of bed. I took my last chemo treatment June 28, and drove 10 hours to PA for my grandmother's 103d birthday party June 29. I wasn't missing that for anything. 

After chemo I had 6 weeks radiation therapy which made me very very tired but I managed to go to work. I remember on the last day walking out the hospital after ringing the bell thinking "now what"...

It's been 19 months since I ended treatment. I'm learning to adapt to the physical side effects from the partial hysterectomy (the cancer was estrogen fed), and the hormone blocker I will take for the next 10 years. My eyebrows grew back, so I'm happy about that. Mentally, I feel like I was in a dream.. and I say dream instead of nightmare because I came out of that year the best person I've ever been. I learned what is important and that faith will see you through the darkest days. I learned to live life to the fullest and love on your people as often and as hard as you can. Tomorrow isn't promised.

2. How old were you when you were diagnosed? 37

3. What/Who helped you get through your treatment?

I was a single parent to two, so my mother and father flew in from MD and Ca. to help me with treatment.

4. When were you deemed Cancer Free?

I use 11 Mar and my cancer free date

5. What did you do to celebrate that special day and your anniversary day?

Last year, I went to Dominican Republic, not sure what we will do this year.

6. Do you have any special charities that you are involved in or host as a survivor?

I am not involved in any charities, yet

7. What advice would you give to someone that is just being diagnosed?

To anyone who is newly diagnosed, I would tell them to have faith. Have faith, and ask for help if you need it. I would also tell them you don't realize how strong you are until you are faced with a beast like caner. But, you can do it. NEVER EVER EVER give up!!

Survivor Saturday w/ Judith Fitzgerald - Maryland Photographer

Great Saturday afternoon to you all!  Today's survivor and newest Catherine Rae Photography family member is Ms. Judith Fitzgerald.  Judith is amazing and had the best personality.  We clicked immediately and had the best time during her session.  I love being able to meet new people and getting to know them through this process.  Her love of life and cupcakes had us laughing the entire session.  We celebrated her birthday the next Saturday and in this short meeting I know we will continue to be friends with each other.  Everyone please meet Judith and share her story so that it might bless someone else.

1. What type of cancer were you diagnosed with and when?

I was diagnosed with Breast Cancer, Stage 1A on February 6, 2016.

2. How old were you when you were diagnosed?

I was 52 years old when I was diagnosed.

3. What/Who helped you get through your treatment?

My faith in God is what helped me through the diagnosis, the lumpectomy, the radiation treatment, and the medication treatment. My family, as well as my friends who are breast cancer survivors, have also helped me through the process.

4. When were you deemed Cancer Free?

I was deemed Cancer-Free April 5, 2016.

5. What did you do to celebrate that special day and your anniversary day?

I had a Celebration of Life PINK Party at the Rusty Scupper and every year on or around my birthday, I will have a Pink Party Celebration.

 

6. Do you have any special charities that you are involved in or host as a survivor

I participate in the Making Strides Against Breast Cancer Walk as a Survivor. I am also a member of the Eydies' Angel Club, which is a part of the Edith P. Wright Breast Cancer Foundation, Inc. 

 

7. What advice would you give to someone that is just being diagnosed?

Never miss a yearly Mammogram. If you do not have insurance, there are several organizations (i.e., American Breast Cancer Foundation) that fund Mammograms and Biopsies (if needed). Don't let the lack of insurance be an impediment to getting a Mammogram. 

Survivor Saturday w/ Vatesha B. - Maryland Photographer

Hello everyone!  It's Survivor Saturday with Ms. Vatesha!  We had a time trying to get this session scheduled but she was a trooper and we got it done.  We had a great time and laughed so much during this session!  I love a person that can laugh through life and have a great time.  This school teacher came ready to get her glam on and pose for her life!  Everyone please meet Vatesha...

1. What type of cancer were you diagnosed with and when?

          Breast Cancer- diagnosed February 27, 2014

When I was diagnosed back in 2014, I was diagnosed at stage 2B, which meant that my cancer had spread into my lymph nodes. From the time I received the news until I began treatment was a whirlwind. I got the news in February and my team of doctors wanted to start treatment right away. Because I was so young and had no kids, it was suggested that I see a fertility specialist about getting my eggs frozen. During the month of March I was under the care of Shady Grove Fertility Clinic and I had my eggs frozen. Soon after I began my chemo treatment on April 4, 2014. I finished on July 11, 2014. A month later on August 20, 2014 I received a lumpectomy to remove the tumor and the lymph nodes affected by the cancer. Finally from September from to November I received radiation.

Upon diagnosis, my family, friends, and colleagues were there for me from the very start. I had so much support from everyone that it was overwhelming. I was so grateful for all the love and support I received. It really gave me the strength I needed to fight and beat the disease.

2. How old were you when you were diagnosed?

            36

3. What/Who helped you get through your treatment?

           My faith in God, my family, my best friends, colleagues, my sorority sisters

4. When were you deemed Cancer Free?

           August 20, 2014

5. What did you do to celebrate that special day and your anniversary day?

            Participated in the Susan G. Komen Breast Cancer walk with family, friends, sorority sisters Had a big dinner party at one of my favorite restaurants

6. Do you have any special charities that you are involved in or host as a survivor?

            Participate in the Susan G. Komen Breast Cancer walk back home in Charlotte, NC

7. What advice would you give to someone that is just being diagnosed?

            FIGHT!!  Having a positive attitude and believing that you're going to beat cancer is half the battle. Also have a strong support system around you to get you through those tough moments.

Survivor Saturday w/ LaQuisha Hawkins - Maryland Portrait Photographer

After a week off we are back with another Survivor at Catherine Rae Photography. Let me tell you that I love the Hawkins family!!!!  LaQuisha came to her shoot ready to go and her two sisters accompanied her!  They were a blast to have over for the session.  We laughed, changed lipstick and just had a great time.  They are a close family and their sisterhood and love for each other was evident.  Please read LaQuisha's story and share with all you know!  Everyone, meet LaQuisha!

1.  What type of cancer were you diagnosed with and when?

I was diagnosed with Breast cancer Stage 0 DCIS and I was diagnosed on March 14. I had gone to the doctor(on March 4) for a severe headache that I had had for a couple of days that wouldn’t go away after taking medication while I was there the doctor saidit was time I have my mammogram so I took it that day and on March 10 the doctor called to say that it was abnormal could I come back in to retake it so I did and they saw calcium deposits in my right breast so I was asked to take a biopsy that same day (Friday, March 11). Then on Monday, March 14  on my day off while I was shopping in Target I got the call that I did in fact have breast Cancer Stage 0 DCIS(Ductal Carcinoma in Situ) which means in place that it has not spread. Needless to say I was devastated and couldn’t even finish shopping or drive myself home. I managed to call my Mom and she sent my Dad and cousin to come and pick me up.

2.  How old were you when you was diagnosed?

I was 45 when I was diagnosed.

3.  What/who helped you get through your treatment?

My faith in GOD and my family/friends have been and still are my ROCK. I never questioned God as to why this happened to me I just trusted that He would get me through and He did. He says I will never leave you nor forsake you and my family and friends were there right from the start when I first got the news and have been there ever since every step of the way changing their eating habits with me, going to doctor’s appointments, throwing me a Pink and White Party just being there for me for anything that I needed and I’m truly so thankful and blessed to have them.

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4.  When were you deemed cancer free?

I  had a mastectomy and reconstruction on JULY 22 so I am happy to say that I am cancer free. It has been 7 months and although I’m still getting adjusted to this new boob for the most part I feel great and very grateful that I didn’t have to do chemo or radiation. PRAISE GOD so yeah I am BLESSED!!!!

5.  What did you do to celebrate that special day and your anniversary day?

I haven’t really celebrated and I’m not sure what I will do on my 1 year Cancerversary I’m just thankful and grateful to be here to share my story so that it may help someone else.

6.  Do you have any special charities that you are involved in or host as a survivor?

Not as of yet

7.  What advice would you give to someone that is just being diagnosed?

Don’t give up. Keeping fighting and trust God that He will get you through. You CAN and you WILL SURVIVE…..I DID!!!! Also, read and educate yourself because every situation is different. Don’t be afraid to ask your doctors questions no question is a dumb one!

Surivor Saturday w/Camille Goff - Maryland Portrait Photographer

I often am asked, "What led you to featuring cancer survivors?"  The answer is simple; everyone has a story and everyone should share their story to help the next person who they might not even know!  Just because an individual goes through cancer doesn't define them and I hope that this experience gives a little beauty back to the person because cancer wears a person down in so many ways.  This week our Survivor is Camille a breast cancer survivor and here is her story:

1. When and what type of cancer were you diagnosed with?

I was diagnosed twice with right breast cancer after I felt a palpable lump during self breast examinations both times.  The first time was in June 2004 at age 26 years old (one month before my 27th birthday) and the second diagnosis recently at age 38 in December 2015 (about a week before Christmas).  I was diagnosed with Triple Negative Breast Cancer both times in Stage 1, but with the most recent breast cancer I learned that the cells also have a “Grade” and my pathology report showed that my Grade was a 3, which meant that the cells in my tumor were poorly differentiated and more aggressive this time around.  A Triple Negative Breast Cancer diagnosis also meant that I had fewer options for treatment and could not be treated with hormone therapy such as Tamoxifen because it would not respond to that type of treatment.  I don’t have any family history of “breast” cancer although other types of cancer does run in my family.  I did genetic testing in 2004 BRACA 1 and 2 to see if I carried a gene mutation that could be passed on to my children.  I have two children - a 19 year old daughter and a 11 year old son. My daughter was 8 years old at the time of my first cancer diagnosis and my son wasn’t born yet (he was born a year later in 2005). The genetic testing came back negative.  I also did genetic testing after my recent diagnosis in January 2016.  When I met with the genetic counselor, she told me that there were more test now then back when I had the previous testing in 2004 to check for various gene mutations that they didn’t know about back then.  All the test came back negative, which was a relief for me but still didn’t answer where did the cancer came from.  I decided to go with an entirely different medical care team with the second diagnosis which consisted of an oncologist, breast surgeon, plastic surgeon, and my primary care physician.  Every year after I had my first breast cancer diagnosis, I had my mammograms and was clear each time with negative findings for any malignancy.  Around 2010, when I went to get my annual mammogram the radiologist started seeing areas that they wanted to further evaluate and biopsy in both breast, but the findings were all benign (no cancer) until December 2015 when the cancer came back.  Each year after 2010 was a very nerve wrecking experience when I went for my annual mammogram screenings.  I opted to have a double mastectomy with nipple sparring breast reconstruction after my second diagnosis.  I had made up my mind that I was going to do whatever I could to lessen the chances of a recurrence so I could live as long as possible.  I met with my oncologist and nurse and we discussed my treatment plan.  It was strongly suggested by my oncologist that I do chemotherapy this time around, which I dreaded (I will terrified of chemotherapy) but again hoped that maximum treatment would give maximum results.  My oncologist during the first diagnosis felt that chemotherapy would not make too much of a difference as apart of my treatment plan due to the size of the tumor, clean margins and no lymph node activity. I was also younger and wanted to have another child. The chemotherapy drug that was suggested could push you into early menopause and cause infertility. I had a strong survival prognosis with my first cancer diagnosis. I went 11 years without a recurrence. During this second diagnosis my treatment plan included the chemotherapy drug - Adriamycin (also known as the “red devil”), Cytoxan and Taxol.  This type of chemotherapy is harsh and causes alot of side effects, but my oncologist prepared me as much as possible with anti-nausea meds, nutrition plans, and other helpful resources. I read as much as I could to cope with all the symptoms and physical changes, but to actually go through it was another story.  I lost every strand of hair on my head and body.  My hair started coming out a lot after my second chemotherapy treatment. I tried to have some control over the situation and asked my husband to shave my head on April 20, 2016. I will never forget that day!  I actually started chemotherapy on March 31st, almost a month earlier.  My plastic surgeon had inserted the tissue expanders during my double mastectomy. The tissue expanders were hard and uncomfortable but their purpose is to stretch out the muscle in preparation for the breast implants. I had several complications while getting chemotherapy throughout my entire treatment which resulted in a total of 5 surgeries from Feb - Dec 2016.  To make a long story short - the previously radiated skin on the right breast from my first breast cancer would not heal from my original double mastectomy surgery in February 2016. The surgeon tried all kinds of ways to get it to heal but the skin was so damaged that the wound underneath my breast just would not heal.  I had to get the right tissue expander and my right nipple removed in May 2016. My surgeon and I discussed me having a latissimus dorsal flap procedure. He wanted to basically take muscle from my back to reconstruct my right breast, but suggested that we wait until I was done with chemotherapy for that procedure. He also had to insert a new tissue expander on the right side after my chemotherapy was completed.  I completed my entire chemotherapy treatment plan on August 18, 2016 surrounded by the infusion center staff, my husband, and my mom. I rang that bell and got out of there as quickly as I could! It was such a relief. What a long journey, but I was finally done for real after several delays due to complications and my treatment plan had been extended at least 2 or 3 times.  It had gotten to the point that I didn’t want to discuss what I thought would be my last actual date to be finished because my oncologist had to change my treatment plan due to all the issues that occured during treatment.   I really had a tough time, but I made it to the end. I experinced so many side effects that included things such as a bladder reaction - frequency and urinary spasms, intense itching, skin peeling, fingernail discoloration/nail loss, neuropathy in my hands and feet, excessive weight loss - I lost around 24 pounds and really felt grateful that part was finally over and I could begin to live again.  I could finally look forward to building myself back up physically and mentally.  I was off from work for about 6 months and was looking forward to getting back to my “norm” again.

2. Who helped you get through your treatments?

My husband and my mom helped me get through my treatment.  They were a HUGE support system for me. My mom bought vegetables, fruits, and whatever else she thought would be helpful to almost every infusion appointment.  My husband cooked every meal and took care of everything at home.  I never had to go to a doctor’s appointment or chemotherapy treatment alone. They sat with me during EVERY treatment no matter how irritated or unpleasant my attitude was on some days -they were there. I also got support in various ways from other family members and a few close friends and co-workers.  I got text, phone calls, cards, flowers, meals delivered, and gifts which reminded me that I was being thought of almost daily or at least weekly and I wasn't alone in my fight to battle cancer.  I am a very independent and a private person that would have probably tried to do everything alone but I am so glad that I accepted all the support that I received.  It was overwhelming at times, but so appreciated.  I am and I will always be very grateful.  I even got a surprise at my final chemotherapy infusion from a friend that I haven’t seen in years.  She was one of my closest childhood friends. I've known her since elementary school.  We hugged and cried - that moment was so special and priceless in the middle of waiting room of the infusion center.

3. When were you given the all clear?

I was actually deemed cancer free when I had my double mastectomy on February 16, 2016. That was the big surgery where the cancer was removed.  I can’t believe that it’s been almost a year already.  I plan to set the tone with this 1st anniversary and do something special for myself like this Survivor photoshoot every year moving forward. Enjoy time with my family - maybe we’ll go out to a nice quiet dinner that evening.  I can really celebrate on my birthday this summer in July that I made it to 40 and pray that God blesses me with many more. I am planning either a big party or trip.

4. Do you work with any charitites or have one of your own?

I am not affiliated in any special charities at this time.  I hope to get involved and mentor other survivors in the near future.  I have done breast cancer walks and given donations to various charities in the past.

5.  What would you like to tell someone who might have been just diagnosed?

I would tell anyone that has just been diagnosed that they will get through it all. To always Have Faith, Believe, and have Hope - Do whatever to keep yourself strong spiritually and mentally because the treatment can drain you in every way.  Try to do things to make yourself feel better, towards the middle of treatment, I learned that if I had the strength to dress up nice ...I felt better (Look good, Feel Good!)  I would also say - Never give up and keep fighting until you can’t fight anymore!  Be your own advocate when it comes to your me

Survivor Saturday w/ Crystal Jones - Maryland Portrait Photographer

Crystal Jones is out feature for this Survivor Saturday!  She is a ball of energy and we are not FAMILY!!! She has an amazing personality and we hit it off immediately!  She came to slay for her session and we laughed the entire time she was at the session!  Her strength and joy is infectious and I can't wait for you all to read about Crystal....

1. What type of cancer were you diagnosed with and when

I am diagnosed with non Hodgkin lymphoma

2. How old were you when you were diagnosed?

I was 47 years old

3. What/Who helped you get through your treatment?

My family and friends. My partner of 6 years decided to cheat with someone I thought was a friend, so not only was I dealing with that, the cancer attacked my kidneys which they had to treat before the cancer with dialysis.

4. When were you deemed Cancer Free?

That hasn't happened for me yet

5. What did you do to celebrate that special day and your anniversary day?

I celebrate every day I'm alive!  I've traveled to places where I wish I could visit and thought I'd never see... like Paris.

6. Do you have any special charities that you are involved in or host as a survivor?

Yes, light the night walk. Also sharing my story of survival not only cancer, kidneys and betrayal

7. What would you say to someone that is just being diagnosed?

I wouldn't say too much. I'd let them speak. Too many times we offer platitudes but we really don't know if Everything is going to be alright. I went through a challenge of feeling guilty that I survived when so many others didn't. Why??? I'm ok with surviving at this juncture and I know that me being here is enough . I don't have to win a noble peace prize.

Survivor Saturday w/ Doretha Burrell - Maryland Portrait Photographer

AMAZING is the word I use to describe Doretha.  She was so appreciative of the session and grateful for our time together.  I had a blast with her and her daughter.  Shecame ready to be photographed and had the most up beat personality!  Doretha is a force to be reckoned with and she is a mover and shaker.  Please read her story and share with others so they might be encouraged.

1.      What type of cancer were you diagnosed with and when?

I was diagnosed on January 3, 2007.  I was diagnosed with Stage II Breast Cancer and it was an aggressive form of breast cancer.

2.      How old were you when you were diagnosed?

I was 50 years old at the time when I was diagnosed.

3.      What/Who helped you get through your treatment?

My lovely daughter, Andrea, my granddaughter, Jayla and at the time my significant other, Jim helped me get through my treatments.  My granddaughter, Jayla was only 2 years old and she would accompany her mom to my treatment and would sit right next to me in a chair as I was administered chemotherapy.  She is now 12 years old and she supports me along with her mom, Andrea on anything I do regarding workshops, walks, etc.  I am truly blessed with my support system now ten years later. At the time of my treatments, I was living in PA and my sisters drove there to visit me.  A friend, Jean, was the brave soul that came to the house to shave my head, which was devastating to see the hair fall to the floor. Having the faith, strength and courage to battle this disease, breast cancer, made me mad and angry for a little and getting mad with it made me push harder to fight it.

4.      When were you deemed Cancer Free?

I considered myself cancer free as soon as I went thru my surgery and was told by my oncologist that I was cancer-free.

5.      What did you do to celebrate that special day and your anniversary day?

To celebrate that special day and my anniversaries and actually EVERY DAY, I spend time talking and praying to GOD to thank him for allowing me to see another day and keeping me cancer-free.  Normally we go out to dinner to celebrate , but this anniversary date which was my 10 year anniversary,(Jan. 3, 2017), my morning started off at Patient First to get checked for a bad cold that I had picked up and I wasn’t feeling well.  So, sometimes plans do not go as we want, but one thing for sure, I was getting checked out by the doctors by having blood work performed.  So even though I was not able to celebrate as I had planned, I am still fine with the day because I am ALIVE and CANCER-FREE. After I left Patient First feeling relieved that it was nothing but a cold virus, I proceeded to Macy’s to catch a few after Christmas salesJ.  I had a nice quiet day to myself and shopped.  I made the best of the day and will continue to celebrate EVERY DAY! I NEVER work on my anniversary date.  That date is ALL ABOUT ME! After all, I deserve it from all the cries, .treatments… chemotherapy, radiation, surgery, Herceptin and the many prescriptions needed to help with the recovery.

6.      Do you have any special charities that you are involved in or host as a survivor?

I formed a 501 c3 breast cancer foundation, “Y-U Breast Cancer Foundation”.  Our mission is to take 3-4 women per year on a Road to Recovery Excursion.  The day is all about her.  Thus far, we have granted 3 women for the trips.  We actually returned from a road trip on Dec.29, 2016 as the last one for 2016.  Our breast cancer survivor chose to tour Washington, DC.  Her mother from Florida accompanied us along with our marketing director.  We had a great time touring the Thomas Jefferson Building, The Library of Congress, and The Supreme Court and then we had the opportunity to ride the Big Bus Washington DC, where we enjoyed a lovely bus ride for 2 hours.  We finished our trip with dinner at The Cheesecake Factory in Annapolis. I usually fund these trips from my own monies because we do not a lot of fundraising events and funding, but I do know one day real soon someone will donate lots of money to us so we can get that RV to take these women on the excursions.  For now, I put the “Road to Recovery” signs on my car and we keep it moving.  I have faith that we will get the funding needed to keep these trips for the women battling breast cancer!

 7.      What would you say to someone that is just being diagnosed?

I know first-hand how devastating it can be to hear the words “you have cancer”. Please know that you are not alone.  There are many of us willing to call you, talk with you, cry with you and do anything that we can to comfort you.  You will begin to converse with people about varies subjects and you will find that more times than not, many of the people that you talk with have either been diagnosed with cancer or is a care-giver to someone who has or is currently battling cancer.  Stay strong and focused, pray and keep the faith!

Allow friends and family to help you.  You might find it tough to receive help because I am sure you are the one always helping others and do not know how to accept help from others.  Friends and family really do want to help but often they just don’t know what to do…so please let them help you.  They really do want to help.  Remember they are affected too because they love you and want to see you through this ordeal. Most importantly surround yourself around positive people. 

Survivor Saturday w/ Jasmine Pettross - Maryland Portrait Photographer

Hello everyone! Meet Jasmine the most recent to grace the blog as a cancer survivor.  Jasmine's session started calm and quiet as she didn't know exactly what to expect but once she sat in the makeup chair and the music started she was all in for this session!  Jasmine has the sweetest spirit and we had a great time.  Please read her story, like and share on social media to help raise awareness.

Jasmine was diagnosed with Stage 3 Colon Cancer at the age of 23 in March 2016. She is currently 24 turning 25 in May.

What/Who helped you get through your diagnosis?

That was the most difficult time for me but with the help of God, family and friends I got through it. My mom and dads side helped out a lot and helped me to see things in a positive way. My friends and family took me to my appointments and came over to keep me company. My friends were always there to cheer me up and to make sure I wasn't down. I leaned on God when I needed strength and he gave it to me, he might have made me wait but he never failed me! Another reason why it's was difficult was because I was told I wouldn't be able to have children unless I got my eggs frozen and that I would have to get my ovaries moved up and one taken out so I wouldn't go into menopause at a early age. I did complete those procedures. I was on chemo April 2016 to may 2016 and had radiation for 6 weeks as well everyday. The radiation caused me to have pain urinating and having a bowel movement.

When were you deemed Cancer free?
August 2016 is when I had my surgery to get my Cancer out. They also put a ileostomy bag on me for 8months. I was then cancer free. My pathology report came back negative for no signs of cancer. I was on chemo for four months just to make sure it didn't come back. I finished chemo January 15, 2017. I will get my ileostomy bag off in April of 2017. 

What do you do to celebrate your anniversary?

I officially celebrated going into remission January 15. I went out with some friends and had a great time and the next weekend spend the weekend at Massenuttin resort in Virginia with a girlfriend, the celebration is still not over. I celebrate everyday for getting a second chance at life!

Do you have any special charities that you are involved in or host as a survivor?

I am involved with the organization We Cancervive. I give back to any one affected by cancer who is in need when I can. I go out and support the organization when they have fundraiser functions. It makes me happy when I can help out a cause like this. We are survivors. 

What advice would your give to someone that is just being diagnosed?

I would just say to someone who is diagnosed with cancer to just have faith. As soon as I had faith in God is when I started receiving blessings ! God truly saved my life and he can save yours to. He tested my faith. Don't let the pain take over you keep fighting and fight again and fight again ! God is working behind the scenes right now ! He got me prepared for something that my future holds and is making me stronger!My mission isn't over yet. He was more than my Cancer. Keep fighting and never give up!

Holiday Family Sessions - Maryland Photographer

If you didn't have time to get your family holiday session in before the end of 2016....there is still time!  Now that we have snow on the ground here in the DC, Maryland, Virginia area, there are some great locations to get your family photos taken.

I met this amazing and adorable family and we went out on a chilly morning to capture these few portraits off of the Potomac River in Washington, DC.  The kiddos as you can see are absolutely to cute for words and were real troopers in the cold weather.  They came ready to have the camera capture some fun moments and awesome hugs between brother and sister.

Survivor Saturday w/ Erica Campbell - Maryland Photographer

Hi everyone!  I had the pleasure of connecting with Ms. Erica Campbell for an amazing survivor photo shoot last weekend.  We had an amazing time and she came ready to get her photos taken!  I am so glad we were able to link up and I could provide this service to her!  Please read Erica's story and help her raise awareness of blood cancers.

Erica was diagnosed with potentially fatal Stage 4 Hodgkin Lymphoma on March 28, 2013. Her journey to survive her battle with cancer was very trying but after overcoming her obstacles, Erica is very passionate about inspiring people to have the d’zire to survive any challenges that they may face in their lives. Erica’s fight to survive lymphoma had its highs and its lows, however she didn’t give up even when at times her battle seemed like it wasn’t getting any easier. Through her unwavering faith and trust in God as well as exuding a positive attitude, she knew she could get through it all. Erica is working to build her nonprofit foundation “Dzire2Survive” with a mission to improve the quality of life of patients and their families touched by the lymphoma disease, by providing education and up to date information. Erica wants to inspire patients with peer to peer comfort to help them continue to fight and overcome their battle with blood cancers. Erica is an ambassador with “The Leukemia and Lymphoma Society” and “The Lymphoma Research Foundation” where her story is featured this month on their Adolescent and Young Adult stories of hope page (https://www.lymphoma.org) with a host of other features such as the Houston Style Magazine, Cancer Today Magazine, CURE Magazine and LRF lymphoma awareness campaign videos (Erase Lymphoma, Impacting Lives-Youtube) sharing her amazing life changing survival story. She has raised over $5K in funds and cancer awareness over the last three years with her team “Dzire2Survive” and impacted so many lives at the Light the Night Walk with LLS and the Lymphoma 5k Walk with LRF.

In September 2015, Erica launched her “Dzire2Survive Inspirational Journal” line. She created these journals to give individuals like herself an outlet to write about life changing events. Her journals will help inspire one to not only write about their journey, but to also show their artistic side by drawing or using photos as one of their many memories. As a survivor of cancer, Erica has a very inspirational journey that she enjoys sharing with others and in her personal Dzire2Survive journal, so she wanted to create something special for others as well. In Erica’s spare time she loves to sing, shop, workout, travel and most of all spend time with her family and close friends. She loves the Lord and through Him, she enjoys helping others affected by cancer by sharing her empowering story. Erica’s motto that she lives by and share with other survivors is, “Never give up on your fight and continue to survive with your beautiful smile…Dzire2Survive”.

If you know a survivor in the DC, Maryland or Northern Virginia area please have them contact me to help them share their story and get the photo session of their life!

Maia's Senior Portraits - Maryland Photographer

Senior photos are always fun!  I love being around young people because they keep you young and on your toes!  Ms. Maia wanted to have her session by the water so we went to the Naval Academy for her session.  It was a nice afternoon that allowed us to get their not to long before sunset.  She is super excited to finish high school and start the next chapter in her life her in the DMV. 

Secrets of a Housewife Movie Premiere - Maryland Photographer

If you all haven't heard of the movie Secrets of a Housewife...you all are in for a treat!  This start studded cast is sure to get you talking about the secrets in your life!  The shows Executive Producer, Tressa Azarel was a pleasure to meet and just a sweetheart and genuine.  The passion for her movie making is apparent once you meet her.  The movie was filmed in the DMV and a lot of the cast is from here or the surrounding areas.  Be on the look out for this to come to a theater near you really soon!

Survivor Saturday w/ Jennifer - Maryland Photographer

Hello everyone!  Survivor Saturday is something I have had on my heart to do as a photographer for awhile.  I have wanted to highlight women that have survived by having a glam day for the individuals.  It is a little girls day out type session where hair and makeup is provided and I shoot them in a contemporary glamour session! it is time to celebrate the women that have survived all cancers and tell their stories so that it might help others.  Please meet the first survivor of the series....Jennifer!

Jennifer was diagnosed in early 2015 with adenoid cystic carcinoma. It's a rare salivary gland cancer (primarily) but can be found in several different glands in the body.  She didn't have any symptoms other than she discovered the lump in her neck by accident. She was initially misdiagnosed but after surgery to remove my gland, they did another test and that's when it was discovered that it was malignant. For Jennifer, it was a trying time to manage and find her own care. It took her 9 months to find doctors to assist her and finally determine radiation treatment was needed. Jennifer spent 6 weeks (33 sessions) receiving radiation to my head and neck. Jennifer is in the Air Force and was medical TDY about four hrs from where she lived to a German hospital. She was able to receive a type of radiation that is only available in Germany and Japan. The treatment itself was not painful, but the side effects from radiation to her neck area were rather painful.

Jennifer states that she is blessed that not to have any significant lingering side effects so far.  Jennifer says. "This journey has not been easy. It has had great impact on my personal life and relationships. I joke sometimes that I didn't receive my "Congratulations! You have cancer..." handbook because no one can prepare you for how to deal with it. In the military, we learn to push a lot of stuff down and move forward because we have a mission to do. I tried to handle cancer in the same manner and it did not work. It's something that I still struggle with at times. I am ok most of the time. As soon as it is time for a scan (every three months) or a cancer-related appointment, the reality of "oh wow...I have cancer..." is back to the forefront. Since it is still relatively new to me, I am still learning to "live with cancer". I'm still trying to figure out what is my purpose in this. For now, I feel as though I can do things like this to share my story and hopefully provide someone else hope as they fight their battle with cancer."

If you know a deserving woman that would love to have a session please send contact information to info@catherineraephotography.com.

 

Ms. Veteran America 2016 - Maryland Photographer

In early October, I had the honor of capturing the Ms. Veteran America award celebration.  These ladies are amazing and have proudly or are currently serving in the military.  These women as part of the competition take on the platform of raising money and awareness for homeless female veterans and their families.  For this campaign the women raised $80K towards the initiative and the organization of Final Salute Inc. 
This competition is far from a beauty pageant!  These ladies not only compete in talent, questions and stage presentation; but they also competed in a push up competition right on the stage in front of the spectators.  It was great to see those that dropped cheer on their comrades in this section of the night.  From 25 it went to the Top 10 and then the Final 3 and then the final question.  Congrats to Captain Molly Mae Porter who was crowned Ms. Veteran America 2016!
 

Per Scholas Program - Maryland Photographer

Not to long ago I was asked to come capture photographs of students in a program that teaches computer technology.  This program is a non-profit that survives off of donations and enables individuals an opportunity to learn a trade to make a living.  What I like about the program is the age range varies which shows it is never to late to learn something new or start over.